Monday, October 15, 2007

Wednesday, September 12, 2007

CPA workshop

Finally back to office. I was away for CPA workshop for few days...

I hate KL, I hate the horrible traffic jam. I booked a cap on Sunday night and they called me up Monday morning telling me there is no taxi go to shah alam area. I guess it was due to the heavy rain on Monday morning. So my hubby have to fetch me to KL... gosh... we caught in the terrible, heavy traffic all the way to KL.

The course was very good. I feel like going back to school, really enjoy the "class room" environment. How I wish I can go back to school again....

But my company send me to this course about "Consolidation Financial Statement". Tell you what.. this was my "weakest" subject during my Uni time. I never get it balance...hahaha !! And yet I have to do consol for my company this year. Wish me luck ya !! :P

The lectural is a very experiences lady... She gave us many many questions with tricky tricky "trap" in the questions. She said this is how they differentiate the "good " and "excellent" students. Wow.. I think I will failed my consol if my Uni lectural was her. Hahahaha !!

Friday, September 7, 2007

Joke ...

看過的笑一笑
沒看過的~~~如果你正在交往的另一半是你的初戀那請你珍惜她()
如果原著看到真的是很認同的看法才分享出來請不要見怪!!!
果然回想起來初戀真的很甜美啊~~~~!


處女和非處女的區別(有點辛酸!)

我的初戀女友初戀時21歲;
我的現任女友初戀時16歲。

我的初戀女友是我的大學同學;
我的現任女友是我在泡吧時認識的。

我連哄帶騙一年半以後才與我初戀女友發生了關係;
我與現任女友認識的第二天就睡在了一起。

我和初戀女友發生關係的地點在我們宿舍;
我和現任女友在四星的酒店開房。

送初戀女友一個「史奴比」她高興好幾天,不停地向她室友炫耀;
送現任女友一個鉑金戒子.她看了兩眼,放近抽屜.原來是嫌它太小。

初戀女友買衣服時,逛的是大型批發市場;
現任女友買衣服時,逛的是品牌專賣店。

與初戀女友吵架,她邊抽泣邊小聲問道:「難道你不再愛我了嗎?」;
與現任女友吵架,她坐在沙發上指著我罵道:「你們男人他媽的沒一個好東西!!」

與初戀女友在一起時,她把家裡每個月寄給她的生活費存到我的餐廳飯卡上;
與現任女友在一起時,我每個月的工資存到她的存摺上。

與初戀女友在一起,早上我醒來時候,她已經買好了早餐等我起來吃;
與現任女友在一起,她躺在床上對我說:「老公,我餓!去給我買早餐」。

初戀女友下課後在我教室門口等我一起去餐廳吃飯.甚至有時買了便當送來給我吃;
現在我經常下班了回來買菜做飯等現任女友回來吃.甚至有時還得給她送過去。

初戀女友經常坐在我身邊陪我上網到天亮,最後她伏在桌子上睡了;
現任女友經常打麻將打天亮 ,我坐在旁邊看著,最後我坐在凳子上睡著了。

初戀女友聽見我和死黨們說黃色笑話會臉紅;
現任女友經常把她手機裡的黃色短信轉發給我。

初戀女友,等我老了,我還依然記得她;
現任女友,等我老了,我不知道她能否還記得我。

第一次和初戀女友約會,吃的是30塊錢一碗的刀削麵。她說吃不了還夾了一大半給我;
第一次和現任女友約會,吃的是3000元一份的西式牛排。完了她還要了一份水果沙拉。

第一次走路送初戀女友回家,她神采飛揚.笑個不停;
第一次走路送現任女友回家,她說我小氣,怎麼不坐TAXI

第一次牽我初戀女友的手,她的手心在冒汗。呆呆的她任由我牽著;
第一次牽我現任女友的手,她自然的把手指反扣過來,牽著我。

第一次與初戀女友談論愛情的時候,她堅定地說她相信我們的愛情會天長地久,聞之我開心了整整一個禮拜;
第一次與現任女友談論愛情的時候,她嘲笑著說相信愛情會天長地久的人是傻瓜+幼稚,聞之我鬱悶了整整一個禮拜。

第一次與初戀女友接吻,她全身發麻。傻傻站著,發不出聲音;
第一次與現任女友接吻,她把自己的舌頭伸向我的口中。

第一次隔著衣服摸初戀女友的胸脯,她啊的一聲大叫,跳著躲開嚇的全身出汗;
第一次摸現任女友的胸脯,發現她乳頭已經硬了起來。

第一次與初戀女友發生關係時,她遲遲不肯脫衣上床;
第一次與現任女友發生關係時,我們一起洗的「鴛鴦浴」。

第一次與初戀女友**,她傻傻地躺在床上,嘴裡低語著:「輕點......我怕」;
第一次與現任女友**,她雙手抱著我的背,雙腿夾著我的腰,嘴裡叫著:「恩......快點兒,再快點兒.....用力~~~~~~~!!!」。

第一次與初戀女友**完事後,她偎依在我懷裡,喃喃地說:「人家是你的人了,你這一輩子都要對人家好哦.....」,我感動;
第一次與現任女友**完事後,她癟著嘴:「叫你剛才用力嘛,真是沒用....」,我尷尬。

第一次與初戀女友**,她出的是血;
第一次與現任女友**,她出的是水.

第一次與初戀女友**時,我們都覺得這是心靈上的交流;
第一次與現任女友**時,我們都覺得這只是器官上的摩擦。

...............


看完這篇文章,女子們,你們明白了為什麼男人會有處女情節嗎?這是其中一個原因。

看完這篇文章,男子們,請你們不要辜負了那個女孩。要知道,她可是用了一個女孩最真摯的心來愛你的。

Thursday, September 6, 2007

The Cross !!
















Whatever your cross;
Whatever your pain;
There will always a sunshine,
after the rain...............

Sunday, September 2, 2007

My girl has grown up !!


Took this picture yesterday night. After taking it, I viewed it so many times, over and over again. Hmm.. my girl has grown up right ? Still remember when she was a small little baby lying in my arms. Feeding her milk every night, looking at her sleeping face in the middle of night makes me feel so contented.

And now she is a big girl, reading by herself every night... helping me to take care of Cayson (ie, take milk bottle, throw pampers etc)... sleeping by her own in her small mattress.......

I love you so much, Iris.. my dearest little daughter. You are always my little princess and my lovely, understanding, considerate daughter. Still remember mummy was having backache when conceived Cayson, can't even get up from bed. You were so considerate, holding my hand and called Daddy to "rescue" mummy by telling daddy "Di.. she needs you". :P

I do enjoy my every moment with Iris. I know one day she will grows up, have her own circle of friends, busy with her study... etc etc etc. Wonder how I would arrange my time, my life then without a clingy daughter beside me.

Thursday, August 16, 2007

How to properly place our new employees

1. Put 400 bricks in a closed room.
2. Put your new candidates in the room and close the door.
3. Leave them alone and come back after 6 hours.
4. Then analyse the situation:

• If they are counting the bricks, put them in the Accounting Department.

• If they are recounting them, put them in Auditing.

• If they have messed up the whole place with the bricks, put them in Engineering.

• If they are arranging the bricks in some strange order, put them in Planning.

• If they are throwing the bricks at each other, put them in Operations.

• If they are sleeping, put them in Security.

• If they have broken the bricks into pieces, put them in Information Technology.

• If they are sitting idle, put them in Human Resources.

• If they say they have tried different combinations, they are looking for more, yet not a brick has been moved, put them in Sales.

• If they have already left for the day, put them in Marketing.

• If they are staring out of the window, put them in Strategic Planning.

• If they are talking to each other, and not a single brick has been moved, congratulate them and put them in Senior Management.

• Finally, if they have surrounded themselves with bricks in such a way that they can neither be seen nor heard from, put them in Government.




Monday, August 13, 2007

深思我们的孩儿教育 - 书多书包重就是教育吗?

我儿子在美国小学是这样被人教育的 [转贴]

当我把九岁的儿子带到美国,送他进那所离公寓不远的美国小学的时候,我就象是把自己最心爱的东西交给了一个我并不信任的人去保管,终日忧心忡忡。这是一种 什么样的学校啊!学生可以在课堂上放声大笑,每天至少让学生玩二个小时,下午不到三点就放学回家,最让我大开眼界的是没有教科书。

那个金发碧眼的美国女教师看见了我儿子带去的中国小学四年级课本后,温文尔雅地说:“我可以告诉你,六年级以前,他的数学不用学了!”面对她充满善意的笑脸,我就像挨了一闷棍。一时间,真怀疑把儿子带到美国来是不是干了一生最蠢的一件事。

日子一天一天过去,看着儿子每天背着空空的书包兴高采烈的去上学,我的心就止不住一片哀伤。在中国,他从小学一年级开始,书包就满满的、沉沉的,从一年级 到四年级换了三个书包,一个比一个大,让人感到“知识”的重量在增加。而在美国,他没了负担,这能叫上学吗?一个学期过去了,把儿子叫到面前,问他美国学 校给他最深的印象是什么,他笑着给我一句美国英语:“自由!” 这两个字像砖头一样拍在我的脑门上。

此时,真是一片深情怀念中国教育。似乎更加深刻地理解了为什么中国孩子老是能在国际上拿奥林匹克学习竞赛的金牌。不过,事已致此?也只能听天由命。

不知不觉一年过去了,儿子的英语长进不少,放学后也不直接回家了,而是常去图书馆,不时就背回一大书包的书来。问他一次借这么多书干什么,他一边看着借来的书一边打着电脑,头也不抬地说:“作业。”

这叫作业吗?一看孩子打在电脑屏幕上的标题,我真有些哭笑不得――《中国的昨天和今天》,这样大的题目,即使是博士,敢去做吗?

于是我严声厉色地问是谁的主意,儿子坦然相告:老师说美国是移民国家,让每个同学写一篇介绍自己祖先生活的国度 的文章。要求概括这个国家的历史、地理、文化,分析它与美国的不同,说明自己的看法。我听了,连叹息的力气也没有了,我真不知道让一个十岁的孩子去做这样 一个连成年人也未必能做的工程,会是一种什么结果?只觉得一个十岁的孩子如果被教育得不知天高地厚,以后恐怕是连吃饭的本事也没有了。

过了几天,儿子就完成了这篇作业。没想到,打印出来的是一本二十多页的小册子。从九曲黄河到象形文字,从丝路到五星红旗……热热闹闹。我没赞成,也没批 评,因为我自己有点发楞,一是因为我看见儿子把这篇文章分出了章与节,二是在文章最后列出了参考书目。我想,这是我读研究生之后才运用的写作方式,那时, 我三十岁。

不久,儿子的另一篇作文又出来了。这次是《我怎么看人类文化》。如果说上次的作业还有范围可循,这次真可谓不着边际了。儿子真诚地问我:“饺子是文化 吗?”为了不耽误后代,我只好和儿子一起查阅权威的工具书。费了一番气力,我们完成了从抽象到具体又从具体到抽象的反反覆覆的折腾,儿子又是几个晚上坐在 电脑前煞有介事地作文章。我看他那专心致志的样子,不禁心中苦笑,一个小学生,怎么去理解“文化”这个内涵无限丰富而外延又无法确定的概念呢?但愿对 “吃”兴趣无穷的儿子别在饺子、包子上大作文章。在美国教育中已经变得无拘无束的儿子无疑是把文章作出来了,这次打印出来的是十页,又是自己的封面,文章 后面又列着一本本的参考书。他洋洋得意地对我说:“你说什么是文化?其实超简单――就是人创造出来让人享受的一切。”那自信的样子,似乎发现了别人没能发 现的真理。后来,孩子把老师看过的作业带回来,上面有老师的批语:“我安排本次作业的初衷是让孩子们开阔眼界,活跃思维,而读他们作业的结果,往往是我进 入了我希望孩子们进入的境界。”问儿子这批语是什么意思。

儿子说,老师没为我们感到骄傲,但是她为我们感到震惊。“是不是?”儿子问我。

我无言以对,我觉得这孩子怎么一下子懂了这么多事?再一想,也难怪,连文化的题目都敢作的孩子,还有什么不敢断言的事吗?

儿子六年级快结束时,老师留给他们的作业是一串关于“二次世界大战”的问题。“你认为谁对这场战争负有责任?”“你认为纳粹德国失败的原因是什么?”“如 果你是杜鲁门总统的高级顾问,你将对美国投原子弹持什么态度?”“你是否认为当时只有投放原子弹一个办法去结束战争?”“你认为今天避免战争的最好办法是 什么?”――如果是两年前,见到这种问题,我肯定会抱怨:这哪里是作业,分明是竞选参议员的前期训练!而此时,我已经能平心静气地循思其中的道理了。

学校和老师正是在这一个个设问之中,向孩子们传输一种人道主义的价值观,引导孩子们去关注人类的命运,让孩子们学习思考重大问题的方法。这些问题在课堂上 都没有标准答案,它的答案,有些可能需要孩子们用一生去寻索。看着十二岁的儿子为完成这些作业兴致勃勃地看书查资料的样子,我不禁想起当年我学二战史的样 子,按照年代事件死记应背,书中的结论明知迂腐也当成《圣经》去记,不然,怎么通过考试去奔光明前程呢?此时我在想,我们在追求知识的过程中,重复前人的 结论往往大大多于自己的思考。而没有自己的思考,就难有新的创造。

儿子小学毕业的时候,已经能够熟练地在图书馆利用电脑和微缩胶片系统查找他所需要的各种文字和图象资料了。有一天,我们俩为狮子和豹的觅食习性争论起来。 第二天,他就从图书馆借来了美国国家地理学会拍摄的介绍这种动物的录像带,拉着我一边看,一边讨论。孩子面对他不懂的东西,已经知道到哪里里去寻找答案 了。

儿子的变化促使我重新去看美国的小学教育。我发现,美国的小学虽然没有在课堂上对孩子们进行大量的知识灌输,但是他们想方设法把孩子的目光引向校外那个无 边无际的知识海洋,他们要让孩子知道,生活的一切时间和空间都是他们学习的课堂;他们没有让孩子去死记硬背大量的公式和定理,但是,他们煞费苦心地告诉孩 子怎样去思考问题,教给孩子们面对陌生领域寻找答案的方法;他们从不用考试把学生分成三六九等,而是竭尽全力去肯定孩子们一切努力,去赞扬孩子们自己思考 的一切结论,去保护和激励孩子们所有的创作欲望和尝试。

有一次,我问儿子的老师:“你们怎么不让孩子背记一些重要的东西呢?”老师笑着说:“对人的创造能力中有两个东西比死记硬背更重要:一个是他要知道到哪里 里去寻找所需要的比它能够记忆的多得多的知识;再一个是他综合使用这些知识进行新的创造的能力。死记硬背,就不会让一个人知识丰富,也不会让一个人变得聪 明,这就是我的观点。”

我不禁记起我的一个好朋友和我的一次谈话。他学的是天文学,从走进美国大学研究所的第一天起,到拿下博士学位的整整五年,他一直以优异的成绩享受系里提供 的优厚奖学金。他曾对我说:“我觉得很奇怪,要是凭课堂上的学习成绩拿奖学金,美国人常常不是中国人的对手,可是一到实践领域,搞点研究性题目,中国学生 往往没有美国学生那么机灵,那么富有创造性。”我想,他的感受可能正是两种不同的基础教育体系所造成的人之间的差异。中国人太习惯于在一个划定的框子里去 旅展拳脚了,一旦失去了常规的参照,对不少中国人来说感到的可能往往并不是自由,而是慌恐和茫然。

我常常想到中国的小学教育,想到那些课堂上双手背后坐得笔直的孩子们,想到那些沉重的课程、繁多的作业、严格的考试……它让人感到一种神圣与威严的同时, 也让人感到巨大的压抑和束缚,但是多少代人都顺从着它的意志,把它视为一种改变命运的出路。这是一种文化的延续,它或许有着自身的辉煌,但是面对需要每个 人发挥创造力的信息社会,面对明天的世界,我们又该怎样审视这种孕育了我们自身的文明呢 。

Friday, August 10, 2007

Allergy

I hate Allergy.. don't know what happened to me this few month. My skins become so sensitive, I can't touch on any seafood especially PRAWN... (My favorite seafood ler).

Went to see Dr a few times. he even gave me an injection of steroid. OMG .. what happened to me ? Some said due to stress and some said hormone changed. But according to Dr, it's non of them.. its just food allergy.

But the problem with me is . I have been avoiding seafood at all and yet the allergy still come. Not sure I allergy to other food as well. So so so sickening !! Or may be I should do a blood test to confirm my types of allergy. But I am so scared of blood test and the fees is expensive.. about RM500. Sign.....




Thursday, August 9, 2007

Cayson back to nanny house for a night

I have a Wedding Dinner invitation at night, so I send Cayson to nanny' house to stay overnight. Can't put a trust on hubby and maid to take care of him. ( No lah.. it's because Cayson still very choosy during night time. He wants mummy or nanny only)

Nanny missed him SOO much .. kissing him and hugging
him tight tight the moment see him. Hm.. another person that spoil him beside mummy. Hee hee !!

And my little boy so manja, starts complaining to nanny .. "yi yi ah ah ..oh ei yi ah" .. as if like mummy bully him very teruk !!

The night become so quiet without Cayson. Iris keeps asking me.. "where is my brother ?". Hmm.. i thought all this while they are like cat and dog. But surprisingly she miss him SOO much !!

And the first question in the morning from Iris is ..."Where is Cayson ?"

I am sure Iris can be a good sister one day and so as Cayson will be a good brother to Iris.


Wednesday, August 8, 2007

Cayson's bb cot


This is Cayson's baby cot.. have been sitting in the back room collecting dust since Iris's time.

Haha.. I will make sure this time i make full use of it. :P



Feeling Fresh !!

Yes.. Cayson sleep well last night. I feel much much better today, feeling fresh and not so tired compared to yesterday !!

Last night decided to let Cayson sleep in baby cot, he never sleep in the cot before. Me and chor ann agreed that we should insist and let him sleep in the cot. This way, it's better to all of us. Iris sleep on her single small bed, Cayson in the baby cot. So daddy and mummy can have some good sleeping time on our BIG bed !! :-)

Hope that tonight he will continue to sleep in his baby cot.

He woke up this morning fresh and stand up on his cot. Looking at us and start calling us. So cute :P


Wednesday, April 4, 2007

My Iris


This is Iris... she is having fun with mummy during my one hour lunch break !!
She is going to 3. Going to Vital Years everyday. She love her class and enjoy her day at VY.

Little Cayson


This is my little Cayson.. he is 4th month now. Love to put his fingers into his mouth.
Like to play so much !!

Tuesday, April 3, 2007

Iris and Cayson

I am mother of 2. Gave birth to my second baby last year November.

Since then, I realised that being a working mother is not easy. There are a lot of things for us to learn in life.. day in and out. I learn to be more patient each passing day.

But I am really glad to see my 2 children growing day by day. I am sure all the mother in this world feel the same too.

Iris is 2 years 7 months, while Cayson is 4 months plus now. I just wish that they are growing healthier and happier ....